Financial Domination: An Unusual Fetish on the Fringes of BDSM

Posted by Delaine - August 30, 2013 - Dating & Sex, From the Dating Trenches, Sexual Issues & Kinks - No Comments

financial domination fetish Ds dating after divorceMy girlfriend Deanne was messaging a younger man from a dating website this week, when out of the blue, he hit her with an “unusual” request:

“Every month I’d like to give you money,“ he wrote.  “You can spend it on yourself or any way you want.  We can start out with small sums but maybe eventually get to the point where I only have enough money to pay my bills.  I want nothing in return.  In fact, you can even ignore me.”

At first, Deanne thought he was joking.  But he wasn’t – and something compelled her to dig deeper and find out more.  He wrote: “I’ve had the desire to do this kind of thing ever since I was teenager. I used to put money in a pretty girl’s locker and stand around the corner just to see her face when she found it.  Or, if I was in the shopping mall, I’d walk ahead of a group of young girls and intentionally drop a $10 or $20 bill (which was a lot back then), just so I could hear them pick it up and giggle. (read more here)

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