Posted by Delaine - February 6, 2012 - Fears & Challenges, Longing...and Learning, Relationships
There’s a natural progression to relationships and it usually looks something like this: we date, we sleep over at each other’s houses more and more frequently, we move in together, we get married. Oftentimes, we look at moving in together/getting married stage as the ultimate ideal – lives are completely integrated. And we often assume that the quicker we get there, the [...]
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Posted by Delaine - January 23, 2012 - Healing, On being alone, Strong Mind & Spirit, Wisdom Gained
There is a feeling under my skin - one that has risen to the surface over the past few years since my divorce. It tells of love, despair, renewal, and adventure. It comes from marrying, birthing, falling, bleeding, daring, reaching and celebrating. It’s a story – a hard-earned one – that is me, but not all of me: I am becoming a “A [...]
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Posted by Delaine - May 9, 2011 - Blended & Changing Families, Relationships
Summer will soon be here and some of you who have new boyfriends/spouses may be wondering what to do about vacation time: what works best for the kids? What’s ‘too long’, where should expectations lie, and most importantly, how can you make create a positive and memorable experience for everyone? Blended family expert Shirley Cress [...]
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Posted by Delaine - April 30, 2011 - From the Dating Trenches, Longing...and Learning
Written by Peter Ehrlich. I remember the first time I heard Neil Young sing Only Love Can Break Your Heart, I was in my early twenties. And I remember what I thought about the song. “Nice little jingle, but I should get back to Keith Richards banging out his signature dirty riffs to All Down [...]
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Posted by Delaine - March 23, 2011 - Advice
I know that many of you, my readers, are new to divorce and feeling overwhelming by the Divorce Tornado, your minds swimming with questions around divorce and children, single parenting, how to date, and most importantly, how to move beyond the insanity. Thus, I wanted to let to let you know about a free, 2-day [...]
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Posted by Delaine - March 6, 2011 - Healing, On being alone, Phases/ Stages
Written by Deborah Moskovitch. It was a dream-like experience. Upon returning from a weekend away with our children, the bedroom closets were empty—my husband, now my ex, had moved out. He took the fabulous living room furniture that we had purchased not that long ago. My world was changing. The reality was, I wanted to [...]
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