Over the past three years since I got divorced, it is by far THE most popular statement I’ve heard from women: “I don’t need a man”. And it’s been said with passion. Power. Ownership. As if it’s been EARNED. And I’ve heard it all over the place: from dinners with girlfriends…to dating sites…. to here [...]
At some in a relationship or marriage, we sit across from our partner and wonder where the romance and passion went… Remember back when he’d wine and dine you and go the extra mile just to see you smile? How he was keen to only put that best foot forward, and how special you felt [...]
It happened last weekend. My eight-year-old son asked if he could bike over to his friend’s place two blocks away. Right away I said no. What if they got hit by a car? What if some predator chased them down the residential streets? I wanted him within eye/ear sight. Just in case. But when I opened [...]
Written by Shelley Stiles. During and after our divorce, we all have a strong desire to protect our children and ensure they are safe and sound. Most of us are familiar with the well-known strategies for achieving that goal but what it all comes down to is the question: Do you love your kids more than you [...]
I admit that when I grabbed the movie Marriages off the shelf at Blockbuster, its title alone made me apprehensive - my first thought was “another Hollywood happily ever after.” But the write-up on the back cover mentioned the words ‘divorce’ and ‘cynical comedy’ – plus, the actors were French and unknown to me (Mathilde Siegner? Jean DuJardin?). So I [...]
I was at home working when my phone rang – my ex-husband’s number popped up. Thinking it was my children, I quickly answered. Instead it was my ex. I heard, “We’ve had a bit of an accident. We’re on our way to get stitches.” “Who’s hurt?” I asked heart racing. “Janet.” (My four-year-old daughter) “She cut open her [...]
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