Tag: Delaine Moore

Talking Dating & Sex After Divorce on CTV's The Social

Posted by Delaine - April 3, 2014 - Between the Sheets, Concerns & Fears, Cougars & Single Moms, Dating & Sex, Internet Dating, Longing...and Learning, slideshow, Women's Sexuality delaine moore, the social ctv, dating expert, divorce coach, The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom, Calgary author, book to movie, dating and sex after divorce, divorce coach, divorce blog, tips, insights, how to, great new books, memoir
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I had the amazing opportunity on April 2 to go on CTV’s daytime talk show, The Social, to talk about the challenging world of dating and sex after divorce. I can’t embed it yet here, cause it’s not yet uploaded to YouTube. But at the very least, I want to provide you with the link […]

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Travelling Spouse: Avoid the Pitfalls That Can Result in Divorce

Posted by Delaine - February 14, 2014 - Fears & Challenges, Making It Work, Relationships, slideshow travelling spouses divorce stress
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My ex-husband travelled a lot for work when we married.  He was gone about 70 – 80% of the time. And the circumstances we faced were tough.  Not just because we had three kids in three years so our marriage had the stresses of young kids to adjust to.  But because neither of us knew […]

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The Frog & The Scorpion: A Fable that Stings

Posted by Delaine - February 13, 2014 - Dealing with the ex, slideshow, Surviving ex husband bully divorce mean hurtful nature of spouse, hurting, fable separated couples
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A lone scorpion was travelling across the land when he came upon a river.  Seeing a Frog in the bulrushes nearby by, he  called out: “Hey you!  Frog!   I need to get across this river.  Let me jump on your back and you can carry me across it.” The Frog fervently shook her head: “Not a CHANCE. […]

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Getting “Naked” Before The World – In A Lifetime Movie

Posted by Delaine - December 15, 2013 - Career Growth & Change, Dating & Sex, Escaping: Books, Music, Films, From the Dating Trenches, On My Book Becoming A Movie, On Writing My Book, Women's Sexuality
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I just got back from Ottawa where I was on the set of a movie being made about the first year of my life post-divorce.  That’s right – a movie.   About me.  Little’ ol me — just a former stay-at-home mom of three kids, whose entire world, six years ago, was so pulverized by divorce, […]

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Obvious and Not-so-obvious Signs Your Partner is Cheating

Posted by Delaine - December 5, 2013 - Infidelity, Surviving
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Delaine Moore, author and a Mars Venus Divorce and Relationships Coach in Calgary, AB, offers up obvious and not-so-obvious signs of a cheating spouse.

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When Men Quickly “Replace” After Separation or Divorce

Posted by Delaine - November 11, 2013 - Dealing with the ex, Fears & Challenges, Grief/ Anger, Loving & Trusting, Relationships, Surviving, Understanding Men/Women
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When Barb contacted me via email last week, she was clearly very upset.  Only six months into her divorce, she’d discovered that her separated husband had a new serious girlfriend; they were even making plans to move in together.  “It’s not that I want him back,” she wrote.  “But it’s such a slap in the face – […]

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Thoughts on the “Next Serious Relationship” After Divorce

Posted by Delaine - September 10, 2013 - Blended & Changing Families, Fears & Challenges, Loving & Trusting, Making It Work, Relationships
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The title of this blog may be a bit misleading.  Cause I don’t want to talk in a professional  tone or way about the “next serious relationship” after divorce.  I want to talk about mine. That’s right.  MY next serious relationship.  I had one for over 18 months.  And I never told you anything about […]

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Is Women’s Sexual Desire Wired For Monogamy?

Posted by Delaine - July 27, 2013 - Between the Sheets, Dating & Sex, Relationships, Sex
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I sometimes worried there was something *wrong* with me – sexually, that is. Cause at some point, during every healthy serious relationship I was involved in, my sexual desire levels severely plummeted. And try as I did to restore them, using all the expert advice I could get my hands on through books, my efforts proved as futile as […]

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What's It REALLY Like to Have An Affair?

Posted by Delaine - May 11, 2013 - Advice, Grief/ Anger, Infidelity, Phases/ Stages, Relationships, slideshow, Surviving Flirt Couple Kiss
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It was my deepest, darkest secret – something that nourished me, tortured me, yet ultimately tore my family apart:  After seven years of marriage, the birth of three kids, and weathering the emotional storm of my husband’s infidelity, I made the choice to have an affair. Now I’m not revealing this today as some kind of […]

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Are You And Casual Sex A Good Fit Right Now?

Posted by Delaine - April 29, 2013 - Between the Sheets, Concerns & Fears, Dating & Sex, Sexual Issues & Kinks, Women's Sexuality
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So right now, even the idea of entering a serious relationship may be enough to make you shudder — you just know you aren’t ready. At the same time, however, your hormones might be screaming loud and strong:  Give me sex, I want sex, I need sex sex sex! But is casual sex something you really want to […]

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PHEW! This “Racy” Calgary Author Was Embraced By Hockey Moms

Posted by Delaine - January 31, 2013 - On Writing My Book, Support & Girlfriends
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So this past weekend I was invited out for drinks and appies with the moms of my son’s hockey teams — a great opportunity to get to know each other outside the rink.  And inevitably, as the evening wore on, a question was posed to me that I normally avoid: “What do you do for work, Delaine?” the team manager  asked […]

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Living Vacariously: Dating & Sex Books for the Divorced

Posted by Delaine - January 30, 2013 - Between the Sheets, Concerns & Fears, Cougars & Single Moms, Dating & Sex, From the Dating Trenches, Internet Dating, Longing...and Learning, On Writing My Book, Relationships, Sexual Issues & Kinks, Understanding Men/Women, Women's Sexuality
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Done With Fifty Shades of Grey….NOW What? By Zlata Faerman A good friend of mine recently told me, “Reading Fifty Shades of Grey literally changed my sex life.” When I asked her to explain further (even though, duh, I’m reading it too, so I get it), she said that she’s hasn’t felt so sexually charged […]

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The Many Degrees of ‘Man Craziness’: Is It time to Break the Habit?

Posted by Delaine - November 3, 2012 - Concerns & Fears, Dating & Sex, Longing...and Learning, Phases/ Stages
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A lot of divorced women – myself included – go through a ‘man crazy’ phase in the aftermath of divorce. By ‘man-crazy’ I mean some part of them is always thinking about, worried about, or eagerly daydreaming about some guy they plan to meet, want to meet, or hope to meet. There are many different […]

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“The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom” in the UK

Posted by Delaine - July 27, 2012 - On Writing My Book, slideshow united_kingdom_bristol The Secret Sex Life of a SIngle Mom1
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Ever since my memoir The Secret Sex Life of a Single Mom was released I’ve avoided reading reviews.  I figured I’ve done my job to the best of my ability…and the book will find its way into the right people’s hands if it’s meant to be… Tonight, however, I stumbled upon this one, written by […]

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