Posted by Delaine - May 22, 2009 - Dating & Sex, Internet Dating
A friend of mine recently asked me this question, and I’m curious as to what you think: If you talk to a prospective online date a lot by phone or IM, can it spoil the in-person meeting? My personal opinion? Yes, it can. Now don’t get me wrong – I always pre-screen a man once or twice by phone or through [...]
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Posted by Delaine - May 19, 2009 - Dating & Sex, From the Dating Trenches
When I’m out on a first date with a man, I pay attention to how my date treats the server. I notice: Is he friendly? Does he use good manners? And, if the server is grumpy, how does he deal with it?
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Posted by Delaine - May 13, 2009 - Dating & Sex, Sexual Issues & Kinks, Women's Sexuality
My divorced friend and I were standing side-by-side, watching our kids play soccer in the field. Out of nowhere, she suddenly blurted: “Can you believe I haven’t had sex in over two years?” My mouth flew open. “You can not be serious!” She laughed and shook her head. “Yes, I’m afraid I am. Since [...]
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Posted by Delaine - May 1, 2009 - Dating & Sex, From the Dating Trenches
“Should I avoid dating separated men?” This is a valid question many women have asked me since divorcing. After all, what if these guys are rebounding? What if they still have heavy emotional issues to work through? At the end of the day, do these guys pose a greater risk to a woman’s heart? I personally think every man [...]
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