http://iamdivorcednotdead.com Divorced mother of three and Mars Venus Coach Delaine Moore helps divorcing men and women become fearless and fiery after divorce! Wed, 01 Feb 2012 19:53:19 +0000 en hourly 1 http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/how-to-cope-divorce-process/anger-depression-denial/delaine/colored-blue-this-valentines-day-season-what-to-do-with-sadness/ http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/how-to-cope-divorce-process/anger-depression-denial/delaine/colored-blue-this-valentines-day-season-what-to-do-with-sadness/#comments Wed, 01 Feb 2012 19:48:28 +0000 Delaine http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/?p=5215

This Valentine’s Day season is turning out to be a tough one for many of my readers.  Letters are steadily trickling in, speaking of break-ups, heart-ache, sadness, and overwhelm. Everyone is looking for reprieve – to break free of the pain, to feel their smile,  at the very least, to hold onto hope.   I offer up ’tips’ to some readers, suggestions on [...]]]> http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/how-to-cope-divorce-process/anger-depression-denial/delaine/colored-blue-this-valentines-day-season-what-to-do-with-sadness/feed/ 0 http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/relationships-divorce/delaine/i-love-you-to-say-or-not-to-say/ http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/relationships-divorce/delaine/i-love-you-to-say-or-not-to-say/#comments Tue, 24 Jan 2012 18:21:34 +0000 Delaine http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/?p=5204

Thinking back to my twenties, I remember I said the words “I love you” very soon in my relationships with men.  The “love feelings” would overwhelm me: the closeness, the intimacy, the peace of feeling cared for and apart from the rest of the world.  The warmth and power of these feelings would fill my chest, sometimes to the [...]]]> http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/relationships-divorce/delaine/i-love-you-to-say-or-not-to-say/feed/ 1 http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/strong-mind-spirit/delaine/on-becoming-a-woman-with-a-past/ http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/strong-mind-spirit/delaine/on-becoming-a-woman-with-a-past/#comments Mon, 23 Jan 2012 10:03:49 +0000 Delaine http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/?p=720

There is a feeling under my skin - one that has risen to the surface over the past few years since my divorce. It tells of love, despair, renewal, and adventure. It comes from marrying, birthing, falling, bleeding, daring, reaching and celebrating. It’s a story – a hard-earned one – that is me, but not all of me: I am becoming a  “A [...]]]> http://iamdivorcednotdead.com/strong-mind-spirit/delaine/on-becoming-a-woman-with-a-past/feed/ 1