It’s a question many ladies get asked by a sexual partner, either prior to having sex, or immediately afterwards: “When was the last time you had sex?” And though your partner has a right to be curious, it may not be a question you want to answer. Maybe you had sex only a few weeks [...]
A new phenomenon has come to town and entered the bedroom of one of my clients. One that is causing her to feel guilty; one that goes against her beliefs around relationships and in a way, feels like gender role-reversal: she doesn’t want to spend the night – or all sorts of extra time – with the new [...]
I recently went out on a first date with a stylish, charming man of French (Quebecois) descent. And when our conversation moved into that of relationships (which it inevitably does with me) he suddenly caught me off guard by stating : “I believe in commitment…but not monogamy.” His admission left me quite tongue-tied. I’ve never met someone who came right [...]
Most women know – and men will even admit - that a lot of men are selfish when it comes to one-night stands: they’re in it only for their own sexual satisfaction and couldn’t care less about the woman’s. This unfortunate realization hit home hard for a client of mine last week. She went over [...]
The other day a client and I shared a good belly laugh over a recent ‘event’ in her life. For the first time since divorcing (over a year ago), she’d brought a man back to her house and taken him as her lover; a memorable event in any divorced person’s history book, I know! But [...]
So today I want to talk about casual sex. Not to promote it, but to get real around it – cause oftentimes after divorce, we know we aren’t ready for a serious relationship BUT…the bod screams, “I want some action, damnit!’ I know first-hand that being pent-up can lead us to feel irritable, unable to concentrate, and just plain [...]
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