Recently I wrote an article about how the phrase ,”I need a man who challenges me’, carried negative imagery and feelings for me. It reminded me of my younger-day yearnings for Bad Boys (who did me no good) and, as a few girlfriends pointed out, had a tone of ‘relationship management’ around it. Soon after writing [...]
I’ll admit, the fact that I’m a single mom to three kids with an ex who’s rarely around, has worried and terrified the hell out of me – sometimes to the point of tears or hours of depression. Though I’ve tried desperately to make good parenting decisions, to do what’s best by my children, the Doubt Monster and [...]
Can cheating on your spouse end up saving your marriage? According to Noel Biderman in his new book, Cheaters Proper, How Infidelity Will Save The Modern Marriage, the answer, believe it or not, is yes. Who is this Noel Biderman? This native Torontonian is the CEO and founder of The Ashley Madison Agency, an online dating [...]
We’ve all heard the expression being thrown around in the dating realm: “He/she needs a challenge.” Maybe it’s even something you’ve said aloud yourself. But recent conversations I’ve shared with various girlfriends has me wondering: Do we need to thoughtfully consider what this expression really means to us, especially now that we’re starting over? Does ‘needing a challenge’ look [...]
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