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By the end of her marriage, she’d given up trying to have a G-spot orgasm; she thought maybe anatomically she couldn’t have one. But one night, post-divorce, that G-bomb came out of nowhere: KA-POWEE! It was a back-arching, soul-screaming Hallelujah!
Afterwards however, she was freaked out – AND embarrassed. Cause it happened with a man she hardly knew.
Why Him? she wondered. More importantly, why NOW? Why hadn’t it happened with her husband, someone she loved, or at least someone she’d dated more than twice?
She figured age was a contributing factor; she was closing in on forty after all. Or maybe it happened because she’d had kids; perhaps something got shook loose in her uterus during childbirth? Or maybe, just maybe, it was because she was more in tune with my body. But that made no sense whatsoever – she was still reeling from her ex’s infidelity when it happened, not eating, not sleeping, not exercising…
But then a new thought zoomed in for landing: “Maybe the why didn’t matter. It happened when it happened just because she was ready. Maybe she was simply meant to experience it for the ecstatic pleasure it gave her – period.”
All she knew for sure was that her body’s new talent thrilled her. If she’d remained married, where, by the end, her sexuality felt confined behind cold bars, she’d never have experienced anything close to this. Moreover, the timing of it suggested that there was more to her, more to her body, more to life than she’d ever imagined. What else what might life post-divorce unleash in her?
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A fascinating description - I will have to give it a try. I’ve tried to find mine for over 20 years and wonder if I just can’t have one! But this gives me new hope. It’s isnpirational too. Makes me wonder what ‘gems’ I might discover about my body after divoce too - thanks!
yes i found mine to after divorce too lol it was so mind blowing when i had my first one ive since learnt how to do it myself so if a guy doesnt no how to do it i can teach him coz i never want to go without it again ive since discovered they is sites where u can be taught how to do it ,shame i never knew about it years ago lol
They have a wide array of sexual toys these days for G spot stimulation that work great !!!
If anyone ever wants some advisement on them let me know .I too found the wonders of the g spot after my first marriage that lack majorly in the sex department. It let me feeling bad about myself as a woman .I have totally come around at this point did marry again and I am 100% comfortable with my sexuality..Life does go on.I promise and it gets better.
Christine
Still haven’t found mine but your storu gives me hope LOL.
m - well I’m jealous you can you do it for yourself cause I’m still not there *grin. The next time (if there ever is one) I meet him I’m going to get more technique details!
Delaine
I had the pleasure of being with a woman (after my marriage of 15 years) and finding her spot. She had never released any amount of fluids before during an orgasm and was embarassed as well. From then on we had to watch where we were because it happended every time from then on. Why couldn’t I ever achieve that with my ex? Who knows.